"It's so funny how we set qualifications for the right person to love, while at the back of our minds we know that the person we truly love will always be an exception."
this verse was told to me by a good fren of mine a few years back. it was a very meaningful verse. it kept pple tinking.
pple always say, love ur partner as hu they are and wat they are. But have anyone tink of wat if e person u love is a drug addict? a smoker? a clubber? a gambler? a flirt? etc. will u love him as hu he is and wat he is? r u still going to accommodate dat?
love is not a game. it is also not as though u are a taxi driver. Even taxi driver now choose who to pick up on e road. Not long ago, i was chatting wif tis gal. She told mi to change others we haf 2 change ourselves 1st. tis is to make another party to realize u r changing too. However, i told her, what if e other party dun realize or dun change too or worse take it as granted? she said then just close both eyes lor. it kept me thinking... there are pros and cons here. it is a good suggestion, a bad idea. Because i dun wan 2 close both my eyes for rest of my life. However, it is a good way to bypass "tinks" but it does not solve it. Instead, we run away frm it. tis is not i wan. i'm not happy.
pple have choices of wat they wan to be or hu they are. Correct. They have the rights to. However, have they tink of consequences? wat haf they benefit frm there? Have they learnt anytink well? Have they brought joy to the pple?
doing wat u enjoy to do is great but dun u all tink doing wat both enjoy is the greatest. i have talk to many frenz, they shared with me their r/s problems and how they handle it. They could handle it pretty well and their partner is cooperating very well. I was amazed by some frenz of mine as they could do it on a snap on the fingers. Well, maybe I dun have the gifted power, I dun have the right tactics and I also dun have the magic to make tinks happen.
If u cant change a person, dun force. if u cant change urself dun force. U have the rights to be happy. You have a choice. As for me, I choose not to force to make unwilling changes. I choose to be happy and do things that I like. Chun said fight for your interest or your rights. I said fight for something that you like.
Different people have different thinking. if you can’t get things right sit down n think. We change to suit the environment, the environment do not change to suit us.
People say, “Women are like weather. Unpredictable.” Truly agree.
“Love is the most powerful emotion one can ever feel, and as we learn to be more sensitive towards each other’s feelings and needs, I truly believe the greatest form of protection comes from love itself.” – taken from Cleo pg. 185
What do u all feel? I feel trust is the greatest form of protection and security before love. Lack of any, the r/s cannot go on.
this verse was told to me by a good fren of mine a few years back. it was a very meaningful verse. it kept pple tinking.
pple always say, love ur partner as hu they are and wat they are. But have anyone tink of wat if e person u love is a drug addict? a smoker? a clubber? a gambler? a flirt? etc. will u love him as hu he is and wat he is? r u still going to accommodate dat?
love is not a game. it is also not as though u are a taxi driver. Even taxi driver now choose who to pick up on e road. Not long ago, i was chatting wif tis gal. She told mi to change others we haf 2 change ourselves 1st. tis is to make another party to realize u r changing too. However, i told her, what if e other party dun realize or dun change too or worse take it as granted? she said then just close both eyes lor. it kept me thinking... there are pros and cons here. it is a good suggestion, a bad idea. Because i dun wan 2 close both my eyes for rest of my life. However, it is a good way to bypass "tinks" but it does not solve it. Instead, we run away frm it. tis is not i wan. i'm not happy.
pple have choices of wat they wan to be or hu they are. Correct. They have the rights to. However, have they tink of consequences? wat haf they benefit frm there? Have they learnt anytink well? Have they brought joy to the pple?
doing wat u enjoy to do is great but dun u all tink doing wat both enjoy is the greatest. i have talk to many frenz, they shared with me their r/s problems and how they handle it. They could handle it pretty well and their partner is cooperating very well. I was amazed by some frenz of mine as they could do it on a snap on the fingers. Well, maybe I dun have the gifted power, I dun have the right tactics and I also dun have the magic to make tinks happen.
If u cant change a person, dun force. if u cant change urself dun force. U have the rights to be happy. You have a choice. As for me, I choose not to force to make unwilling changes. I choose to be happy and do things that I like. Chun said fight for your interest or your rights. I said fight for something that you like.
Different people have different thinking. if you can’t get things right sit down n think. We change to suit the environment, the environment do not change to suit us.
People say, “Women are like weather. Unpredictable.” Truly agree.
“Love is the most powerful emotion one can ever feel, and as we learn to be more sensitive towards each other’s feelings and needs, I truly believe the greatest form of protection comes from love itself.” – taken from Cleo pg. 185
What do u all feel? I feel trust is the greatest form of protection and security before love. Lack of any, the r/s cannot go on.
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