Saturday, October 22, 2005

wat a gal feels..

sum times i does not noe izzit mi or applies to all e others gals out there.. i duno hw 2 react properly and manage it. maybe u pple can teach mi or maybe can drop mi sum advice. wat do u gals handle bf's ex gf stuff & photos? erm.. i haf survey a few gals actually.. most of them was kinda unhappy wif it, which i tink is perfectly normal.. 1 of them actually made her bf threw away all his ex gf photos. yes. all. cleared. oh, forgot to mention including all e stuff too. another of my girl fren made her bf to threw away all e stuff and delete the bf ex contact number, msn [blocked & deleted] and friendster. another 1, which was the timid gal [haha...], wrote a letter to her bf and ask her to throw aways all e photos he had wif his ex. as for mi, i tink is pretty natural to be jealous and unhappy to see these stuff kept wif him. so of cos, i threw all e stuff away.. ok.. i mean most of them.. except e photos.. which i reali didnt like e idea of keeping it. though he insist... anyway, i dun reali like e idea of keeping 2 acc of e same person in friendster..[maybe u've lots of space for pple.. i duno..] as for contact, is stupid for mi to ask him to delete for he already memorise it whom he cant even remember his sis number. ok.. i juz haf to live wif it.. 6 long yrs of relationship wasnt short and shdnt b forgotten dat easy. i admitted i was jealous perhaps over-reacted, end up had an argument wif him. well.. i guess he wasnt in e wrong.. i believe dat he didnt purposely look for her. cos i seen her msging him in msn a few times. i din wan to interfer. calling up to chat wif him or asking him out.. seriously i dun wan to noe so much. y would sum1 dat stupid wans to noe so much tinks which actually hurts sum1. maybe i juz being silly to b dat sum1.. sumtimes i was tinking, wat so gd abt her? i shdnt compare. no 1 shd. i'm nt stopping any1 to contact each other. but is e way i feel.. i duno.. maybe wat she told him is rite. she say is stupid to stop contacting her juz becos of ur gf told u to. well, i thought abt wat she say. if i were in her shoes, i will say e same tink too. but, i will be sensitive to e another person feelings too. i feel is a respect to the other person too.
i noe aft i publish tis post out i gonna haf big trouble, in other words, another argument will cum up.. he told mi not to tink so much abt it. he said she is sumtink xtra. sumtink which does not cum between us. he said we shd nt let tis spoil our relationship, shd nt make a big fuss over it. well.. is a fact dat i doesnt reali like her. i even stop him frm gg club momo, juz becos she worked there[ maybe she alrdy change to another new club? i duno.]. haiz.. tis still haunts mi. still make mi feel veri uneasy. even sumtimes we happen to meet up, i dun show i dislike her. i still smile at her, i guess dats veri much of respecting ba.. haiz.. i duno will i regret posting tis up.. i gonna get question soon...

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

i know exactly how u feel. i didn't know wat to do either when my bf still had his ex gf's photos all over his room 5 months into OUR relationship. and not only the most recent, there were 3 of his ex's(3 diff girls) photos over his bed, in his cardboard and on his wall. i didn't really want him to throw them away, coz they were memories, but at least hide it from me right? sigh. we're now into our 15th month and he's cheated on me. pls be thankful tt ivan at least told u where he was going when he goes clubbing.