"alot of things have made me realised that what we see or hear isn't real. it may be twisted in a way or another. it's so true that over the time, a person will finally show his/her true colours. it may be good or for the worst. of cos nobody wants to see the ugly sight of a person and eventually drift away. but reality is cruel. it's only a matter of time you find out.but what if you are not used to the person's true attitude and character? and he or she is someone close to you or someone you love? how would you react to it? there will definitely be alot of differences and views. so do both compromise and change for the sake of the relationship? then again, it wouldn't be the true self right? and the chances that one will return to its old self is pretty high. that's because that's the character the person is born with! as simple as that. and so it will go round and round but back to the dot. what's the point? yea, right. the point is you made an effort to change because the friendship or relationship is important to you. so do you change for the better or should people accept the way you are?so now you finally realised that the person isn't the same old person anymore, someone you never thought you would be so close to or even love and you are quite affected by it. be it your bf or gf or just a good friend, but you just don't like it and never like it yet he or she is someone important to you. what are you going to do? do you just end everything here? impossible because that is something you will NEVER want to do. make do with it? impossible also, because you will feel like it's eating up on you. hard decision eh? neither can you expect the person to change. probably for the sake of the whole relationship, possible. but it is never an easy task to change and it doesn't mean that you won't commit the same mistake again. what if the person got so angry with you when you tell him or her about it, thinking why the fuck are you saying all this, can't get along then just forget the whole notion? which is why people are afraid or rather not comfortable to say it out and they chose silence."
it reali shows hw ironical human can be... dun u tink so? we wan everytink perfect, wan everytink goes our way.. but can we? e world is changing... pple too. sum go, sum stays..
Love, contains nt juz understanding, caring and missing each other so simple.. love is a commitment, a effort to be put in, and a responsibility in it.. haf u gt all these? well, action is louder than words. sumtimes is reali terrible to say out tinks we shd not say, it might hurt sum1. we always say dat we wan so and so to be more natural, so and so to be more true more real, but cum to tink, y tis person wans to be like tis? izzit becos tis person is scare? scare of showing one's true self? scare tis person might scared us away? well.. if we accept one, we accept he/she everytink... sumtimes it might nt b a bad tink to be urself.. erm.. i'm trying to say... juz get real.
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